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Ep 41 – Summer STEM Camps 2026: LEGO, Rockets, Minecraft Coding, & Curiosity

On May 16, 2026, Wes and Shelly Fryer discuss why they run summer STEM camps and what they’re offering in summer 2026, noting they’re teaching 16 half-day camps (Shelly 9, Wes 7). They emphasize camps as passion projects and a “sandbox” for learning through play, curiosity, wonder, and computational thinking, with structure, community-building, partner work, and parent communication. They share reflections from past camps (including COVID-era online Minecraft camps) and lessons learned at Providence Day’s extensive summer program, including the importance of streamlined logins and student helpers. They point listeners to camps.shellyfryer.com for camp details and enrollment info, www.astrokidsclub.org for Minecraft content, and mention sites like classroom.shellyfryer.com. Shelly outlines LEGO, rocket/design, Artemis innovation, and a new “Super Sleuths” forensics/breakout camp; Wes previews animal websites, space-themed Minecraft coding, wizarding builds, mini-game coding, and game coding with AI, plus upcoming STEM PD in July with Cherokee immersion teachers in Oklahoma.

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Introduction and Goals (0:00)

Wes Fryer: Hello. It is Saturday, May the 16th, 2026. This is Wes Fryer. I’m here with Shelly, and we are going to talk about summer STEM camps. This is a podcast we are sharing on Wes and Shelly Share. Most of our episodes are really for our family — they’re for others in our community as well — but it’s like sharing lessons and adventures in the empty nest.

We’ve been teaching for a while, and we’re going to again be doing summer camps. In fact, I think we’re doing more summer camps this summer than ever before. Between us we’re signed up to do 16 half-day camps. Shelly signed up to do nine. I’m signed up to do seven. Shelly, what do you see as the goal and the audience for this episode?

Shelly Fryer: My intention, and the reason I do summer camps, is because these are passion projects for me. Now that I have transitioned into a more supportive role as a teacher, I still enjoy teaching and I still believe in STEM education. So for the summer, I usually plan different projects that are of interest to me — space is one of my passions — and I love getting kids excited about learning about space, especially now when there’s so much going on with the Artemis missions.

My intention in the summer is that kids should be involved in things that enhance their creativity and get them into a more active learning role. And I’m hoping that the students who sign up for our camps are interested in the topics we’re doing. Some of my most popular have been Legos — I work on Legos throughout the year with our extended day program and I want to extend that through the summer months. Learning through play is really my intention.

Ep 41 – Summer STEM Camps 2026: LEGO, Rockets, Minecraft Coding, & Curiosity with Wes & Shelly Fryer (CC BY 4.0) by Wesley Fryer

Wes: I really love summer camp as an opportunity to be a sandbox. I learn so much — especially with Minecraft camps that I’ve done — and I bring those lessons into my regular teaching during the school year.

Our audience and our focus is a little bit different. We want to direct you right away to two different websites. First is camps.shellyfryer.com, which is a website we’ve set up that specifically has all the camps we’re doing. It’s updated each Monday with new enrollment numbers. Shelly’s got three of her camps full; I have one of mine full. If you’re hearing this before a camp starts — we’re doing this through mid-July, basically all of June and the first week or two of July 2026 — go visit camps.shellyfryer.com.

There’s another website I started to use last year that I’m going to grow: astrokidsclub.org. That’s where I put my Minecraft camp, my Coding Mars Minecraft camp, and we’ll continue to update that.

In the first half we’re going to talk about reflections on camps we’ve done in the past — motivation, what we’ve learned — and then in the latter part we’ll go through the specific camps we’re doing this summer, talk about ages, activities, and all of that.


Curiosity, Wonder, and Play (4:27)

Wes: Shelly, why is curiosity and wonder and play important for kids — not just in summer?

Shelly: No, that’s a good question.

Wes: For a number of years I’ve started off a lot of my classes with a video to try to provoke student curiosity. In my media literacy class — which is called Computer Applications for middle schoolers — one of the webpage projects I’ve had students do is their own Wonderlinks. Curiosity is so important. In a lot of school situations, adults have decided what kids are going to learn, and that can be good — curriculum is important. But curiosity, having a chance to use your imagination, being introduced to new things and mysteries, things that are not figured out — oh my gosh, look what we’ve just discovered — that matters. Animals are definitely something that kids like a lot. In fact, that’s one of the camps I did last year and I’m doing again. In my ideal world, we’d all get to go to the zoo, capture media, come back and make webpages. But I think curiosity and play and imagination are just important. What are your thoughts?

Shelly: I’ll start with my Lego camps. I loved Legos as a child, and when I first started getting into them, you got a bunch of loose Legos and you used your imagination to build all kinds of things. I feel like that’s a little bit lost, although I think Lego is really trying to bring it back. Our son was big into Legos — I think he had all of the Star Wars kits — and I’ve purchased a lot of space kits for students to build. But one thing I do realize, especially with younger students, is that they’re not so much into the kits. They really enjoy having time to just build and be creative — what they call “free builds.” Even some of my older fifth graders enjoy free building and getting away from the kits.

I also think, and I guess this is the teacher in me, that some kind of inspiration or challenge is important. So when I’m designing my Lego camp, I do like to have a theme. My favorite is the space theme. Having students actually learn something and then design and build through a challenge — for instance, learning about rockets and how rockets work, and then having the challenge of building a rocket — or learning about the planets. A lot of students, especially younger kids, really enjoy that. But then having a creative challenge: what is a planet you would like to visit, and what do you think would be there? So having a challenge built within the learning. And the students love it when I take pictures of their builds — they love to see themselves and their creations. Documenting their creativity and sharing it out has been a big part of my Lego camps.


Reflections on Past Camps (8:44)

Wes: So let’s talk a little bit about some of the camps we’ve led. COVID was in 2020 — it’s about five or six years ago now. I got involved in Minecraft because of our son. When I had a chance to speak at the ICE Conference — the Illinois Computer in Education Conference — my friend Lucy Gray got me there, and I sat down with an educator who had the Ed Gamer podcast for a long time. Just having a conversation about Minecraft and kids and playing. I hadn’t really sat down and played Minecraft with Alexander, and I did after that, as an encouragement — because I am not a big gamer myself, strangely enough.

Then when there was an educational version of Minecraft, I learned how to use it early on — this is before Microsoft bought it, when I was still teaching fifth and sixth grade STEM in Yukon, Oklahoma, before I became a tech director. Minecraft in creative mode is like students having unlimited Lego bricks — every piece they could possibly want. I’m constantly learning new things from my students.

I love when students get into a flow experience where they lose track of time and they’re just into it, in the zone. I’ve seen that happen a lot with Minecraft. During COVID, I ended up doing some online camps because we couldn’t have face-to-face summer camps. Rachel was a junior that year, and some of her friends were into Minecraft. I recruited them — they got service hours to be camp counselors — and we had students from all over, mostly from Oklahoma City but some from other places.

I have enjoyed doing camps whether at Cassidy School in Oklahoma City or here at Providence Day in Charlotte. The culture of summer camp tends to be oriented more towards elementary age, and you can look at it as babysitting in some ways — parents want enriching things for their kids to do. But I’ve done camps focused on coding, Minecraft, and media creation where we’re making webpages, working in Canva, and giving students an opportunity for real free play with technology — with some structure built in.

Shelly: Pardon our dog — he’s excited we’re outside. Camps have been a sandbox place to try and develop new lessons and see what works with kids. Parents sign kids up because it’s something they think their students will be interested in, and that’s always helpful when you’ve got a classroom full of students who want to be there.

When I first started doing STEM camps, I was in a one-to-one iPad situation and had taught with iPads quite a bit. I really got into coding — especially coding with young children. I was a code.org trainer and enjoyed providing opportunities for students to do offline coding and physical computing: learning how coding works by creating algorithms, but in a fun and active way, not just on a computer. I also got pretty involved in Scratch and Scratch Jr. with PBS. My very first camp this year is actually a Scratch Jr. Coding Adventures camp, and I’m really excited to get back into that.

Since being here in North Carolina, I’ve gotten involved with Science Olympiad, and I really love volunteering for that and learning about rockets and innovation challenges.


Professional Development and Creativity in Learning (17:33)

Wes: Our own professional development has been a big part of this too. When we were in Oklahoma, Shelly became an Oklahoma A+ Schools fellow, and I had multiple opportunities to participate at their events. Oklahoma A+ Schools came from North Carolina — it was a statewide initiative to integrate the arts and creativity across all disciplines. They hosted the World Creativity Forum back around 2010. All of that really encouraged a multidisciplinary approach to learning and the idea that creative arts aren’t just for the fine arts department — they could be done in social studies, in science, in math.

Summer camp offers a very open-ended opportunity: “What should we do at camp?” Let’s reflect a little bit about what we did last year and what we learned, because many private and independent schools have summer programs. Ours is quite extensive — you can go to summer.providenceday.org — though that website rolls over each year so it only shows current camps.

I really enjoyed the format of a half-day camp. Three hours is pretty good. We have a break and the kids get a snack. I learned to mostly focus on the younger kids — I teach middle school, but the culture of summer camp here is really oriented more towards elementary age. I appreciate all the logistics and organization being taken care of for us, and our school has a fair and generous revenue-sharing arrangement with teachers.

On a technical note — last summer I set up my own domain and accounts for Minecraft. You don’t have to be a school in order to have your own Minecraft Education accounts. Getting accounts sorted and computers logged in and ready before kids arrive is really important — whether it’s adults or kids, dealing with accounts and passwords can be a major barrier to getting anything done. This year I’m hoping to have some middle school helpers to assist, and that’s something I’m really looking forward to — middle and high school students being involved as counselors and assistants is a great aspect of camp at our school.

Shelly: We were actually a little late getting our camps in last year, and in some ways that was helpful — it was our first year in this format here. I was surprised at how many non-Providence Day students we had. We get a lot of students from the Lansdowne area where the school is located, and we got a lot of kids whose grandparents signed them up when they were visiting. So a lot of kids came in not knowing each other. That meant we had to build in some community time, which is something Wes and I love to do anyway.

My camps all involve working with partners, and group work can be very hard for young kids. Having time to get to know each other, setting up some boundaries on how to work with a partner, being responsible for materials — camp is like a mini classroom situation. But it’s also way different than being in school because it is about fun and being active. It is summer, and there needs to be some time to get a snack or play on the playground.

Being very specific in camp descriptions is something we’re learning along the way — students and parents need to know exactly what they’re going to do and learn. But I also know that sometimes parents are choosing a camp based on what’s offered at the time and what fits their schedule. Anyway, I think being very intentional about your camps, but open to having fun and making friends, is really important.


Computational Thinking and Screen Time (26:38)

Wes: I want to say a couple words about computational thinking before we go to halftime.

The camps we do are not just play camps. There are some Minecraft camps where it’s literally just come play Minecraft and there’s really not much in the way of a lesson — just free playtime, which can be fine.

Shelly: It’s like recess — learning how to control yourself, how to not be upset when things don’t go your way.

Wes: Yes, playing games involves so many different social skills that kids need to practice. But computational thinking is a through line for all of the coding activities we do, whether it’s offline coding, Minecraft coding, Scratch coding, or whatever. It’s different from just making art. Coding is: does it work? Can you make your sprite or your character do what you want it to do? You’re problem-solving, you’re thinking algorithmically.

Today, living into this age of artificial intelligence, I’m increasingly aware of how important clear communication is — but also the ability to iterate, to explain something differently, to ask for a change. I’m doing this constantly using different AI platforms now. I’ve just actually reached a pretty big milestone with a project called Podcommons, and it’s just unbelievable to me what I’m now able to create with my coding partner AI.

Part of the reason we want kids to be with teachers — hopefully good teachers — is to learn how to think, how to analyze, and how to communicate. Because if we’re going to live in this world, we’re going to face challenges and problems, work with other people, navigate conflict. I really love helping kids experience success when it comes to coding and computational thinking — having agency over the computer.

We’ve got a lot of pushback today — thank you in part to Jonathan Haidt and others — against screen time and the role of screens. And no doubt screens have had a huge impact on our society and culture, and not all of it is good. But all screen time is not created the same. When a student is building a game where other people are playing it and giving them feedback — that process can be very invigorating and really challenging from a thinking standpoint. We’ve heard Gary Stager talk about “hard fun,” and that is one of the things we try to give kids. So let’s go to halftime.


This Summer’s Camps: Shelly’s Lineup (31:40)

Shelly: Welcome back. Now we’re going to talk about our specific camps this summer — what we’re looking forward to, what we’re hoping to accomplish, maybe some things we’ve changed from last year.

I’ve talked a little about my Lego camps. These are camps I’ve done before with my extended day program, so they’re actually full — a class of 12, which is what I can manage without hiring an assistant. I like to build in some learning and then creative building challenges with that.

My other camps — I’m repeating a camp from last year: Rockets and Design. I’m doing mornings with grades 2-3 and afternoons with grades 4-5. My younger camps tend to fill up more quickly. Older elementary students are also into sports, so a lot of them gravitate to sports camps.

I loved my Rockets and Design camp. Last year we built a different rocket every day, and we’ll probably do that again. These are not kits — we’re exploring the science of physics through the rockets we’re building: the purpose for a fin, the purpose for a nose cone, the history of rockets. I’ve been working with Science Olympiad teams on different rocket challenges, including water bottle rockets, which are so fun. After we build our rockets, we launch them — high energy and really fun. I would love to have more incoming fourth and fifth graders in that camp, and especially more females. A lot of my STEM camps attract fewer girls, which is something I’m always thinking about.

Wes: Were you talking about the design process?

Shelly: Yes, thank you. The design process is central to another set of camps — my Innovation and Design camps. With the younger students, we’re building things like bridges and boats, testing them, iterating and changing our designs. Catapults too. With the older students, grades 4 and 5, it’s an Artemis camp — and this year it’s even more fun because of the Artemis II mission and all of the publicity it’s gotten. We take it from the rocket to the space capsule, to the heat shields, to the parachutes — exploring a lot of those designs and then creating our own.

My newest camp this year is Super Sleuths. Our daughter-in-law is a forensic scientist with a specialty in DNA, and Science Olympiad has some great forensic events. I paired up with a good teaching friend of mine who loves breakout rooms and escape rooms. We’re teaming up to do forensic things like fingerprints, finding strawberry DNA, and chromatography — analyzing inks and what they do. She’s going to focus on code breaking, problem-solving, and puzzle challenges, and then on the last day of camp we’re going to do a big breakout room. I’m super excited about that one.


This Summer’s Camps: Wes’s Lineup (36:18)

Wes: You can go to camps.shellyfryer.com and see all of our camps. It’s very easy to filter — you can see which camps Shelly is teaching, which I’m teaching, what grade levels they’re for. We’ve also got our emails on there if you want to reach out with questions.

Shelly’s current website for sharing lessons and curriculum is classroom.shellyfryer.com. The rocket camp curriculum from last year is up there. Back in February, she was able to lead a wonderful Sunday activity for Buddy Mentor — a great group our friend Kimbo leads — where we built water bottle rockets and launched them in the park. So fun.

The camps I would love to have more students sign up for are for rising 3rd through 5th graders. In session three, the third week of June (June 15-18), I’m doing Amazing Animal Websites and Minecraft Coding in Space. When I do a Minecraft coding camp, it’s good to give kids some opportunities to see what others have built and what’s possible — but the most fun is usually in the building and constructing themselves, having challenges.

For at least four years here, and even before when I was teaching middle school in Oklahoma City for three years, I was using Minecraft and exploring this idea of a Mars outpost — how can we build on Mars? Tying in learning about Artemis and the space program, there are so many wonderful videos and content to build on. Where do kids learn about this if they don’t take a space camp or go to Space Camp in Huntsville, Alabama, or Kennedy Space Center in Florida? Both Shelly and I feel like it’s a wonderful thing to share our love of space and exploration.

I’m also excited to do the Amazing Animal Website camp again. Kids love animals, and teaching kids to have agency over the creation of media projects is really fun. They get to choose an animal — one they probably already know a lot about — and build a webpage around it.

For the first time, I’m doing a Wizarding Minecraft Build Camp (June 22-26, session four). Harry Potter is still, even though the movies and books are old now, generating a lot of interest. I’m going to have kids sort into the house of their choice and it’ll be a mix of experiencing some pre-built wizarding environments — castles and things — and then exploring some of the potions and alchemy elements of Minecraft. I love using the education version because as a teacher you have superpowers: you can allow or disallow fire and TNT, suspend the day cycle, easily teleport all the kids to follow you to different places, and use boundary blocks. In my ideal world, I might get some former students who really love Minecraft to help build some environments in advance — that was really fun when we did it for camps at Cassidy and during COVID online camps.

The camp that’s going to stretch me the most is Minecraft Mini Game Coding (July 6-10, session six). Kids love games — boys and girls both. I have the opportunity to teach our middle school computer programming class, and one of my lessons there is creating mazes and maze games. I’ve kept track of some of the best student projects over the years and have a whole showcase. A mini game — something quick and short — this will be the first time I’ve offered that.

I’m going to provide students with some different scripts they can use and modify, because most of the kids who come in are not going to have had a lot of open-ended coding experience before. I think code.org is good and valuable, but many of those lessons are quite prescriptive — you can walk through a tutorial and be “successful” without really being able to think: how do I make an aquarium game where I’m swimming around and there are different fish and I get points for touching them? The open-ended nature of this is what I love. The phrase I like is low bar, high ceiling — giving kids a challenge that doesn’t have a lot of complexity to start, but you can really take it far and be creative.

The last camp is Game Coding with AI, and that one I really have to work on. We license Flint at our school, but many of these campers are coming from outside of our school and won’t have those logins. I’m going to have to figure out whether I’m building my own vibe-coded AI API tool, or how exactly I’m going to let kids interact with AI safely to get code and feedback on their code. That camp is about half full with nine students, and sometimes it’s nice to have a smaller group — you can provide everybody with more individual feedback.

I have learned so much about teaching with artificial intelligence and AI. In addition to Flint, our students have access to NotebookLM and Gemini within our school Google Workspace.


Professional Development in Oklahoma (46:05)

Shelly: Wes and I have an opportunity to go to Oklahoma and work with a school we’ve worked with before. It is a Cherokee Immersion school — the teachers are Cherokee, the students are Cherokee, they speak the Cherokee language. It’s a wonderful opportunity. It’s through a grant, and we’re going to do a three-day STEM camp, working in the mornings with lower school age teachers and in the afternoons with middle school age teachers.

We’re going to do some rocket and space activities, pulling from things we’ve done with students in the last few years. It’s always interesting working with teachers, especially on these kinds of activities. I find teachers are not always as open to building and making and thinking creatively. It’s a mixed bag — sometimes they really get into it, and other times they’re a little resentful of having to be there, wishing they could be doing other things. It’s a challenge working with adults.

We want to have something they can readily take back and do with their students. We’re not introducing a whole new curriculum, but more a way of thinking — how to fit more STEM, and especially culturally relevant things that are going on in our world right now, like space being a reality. Maybe introducing some of those things so that teachers can share them with their kids.

One thing I’ve learned about students is that in order to go into STEM fields, they really need to be able to see themselves in that. “Oh, wow — it is possible for me as a female to become an engineer and maybe go work for NASA.” We want to take those ideas into this community where students and teachers may not see themselves in some of these advanced STEM opportunities. We’re very excited and very humbled to be working on this, and to get back to Oklahoma to do it.

Wes: The design process may be a common thread. We’re really going to be doing three three-hour sessions — a different group in the morning and afternoon. The design process and learning how to think about a problem, interview people, break it down, try to identify what we can address, prototype it, build it, get feedback, measure things, and then circle back for more feedback.

The d.school at Stanford is a major proponent of design thinking, and most STEM departments are going to have some version of a design process they encourage students to use. I think we’re going to try to introduce teachers to a variety of things but be hands-on. The rockets are always fun, and getting them to have their own rocket launcher would really be cool.

In professional development, I’ve learned there’s a lot of value at the awareness level — “Hey, this is possible, look at this, I’m going to show you this.” But especially in the summer, in terms of impact, the doing matters most: “Here, let’s be students. We’re going to do this lesson together.” Each day we’re definitely going to have that kind of build-it experience, but then also collect media about it, reflect on it, and practice some skills in a STEM lesson that could be transferable to other contexts.


How to Connect and Register (50:49)

Shelly: I absolutely would love to hear from people with their ideas or maybe their experiences with Legos, with design engineering, with rockets. If you’ve had experience with Science Olympiad, I would love to hear back about that. These are my passion projects, and I love taking things and improving them, changing them, adding to them. I love connecting with other people who are passionate about space education and making things with other students and teachers. I would appreciate learning from you. Please reach out if you have any questions.

Wes: You can visit camps.shellyfryer.com — both of our email addresses are on there, along with live links to the registration pages. They do maintain waiting lists in the event that somebody drops out or there’s a change in a camp. You can also contact me by visiting wesfryer.com/contact, where I have a Google form. And if you’re seeing this on Facebook, you can always leave a comment there.

Thank you for listening. We hope you’ll subscribe to Wes and Shelly Share — you can find all of our episodes at shellyfryer.com/podcast or at podcasts.wesfryer.com, which is my PodCommons project, with all five podcasts I produce, including Wes and Shelly Share right there at the top.

Until next time: speak curious, go outside — and have adventures!


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Ep 37: International African American Museum and Our Mothers

In episode 37 of ‘Wes and Shelly Share,’ recorded on Monday, November 24th, 2025, Wes and Shelly reflect on their recent trip to the  in Charleston, SC. They discuss their experiences and insights gained from the visit, including the importance of acknowledging and understanding the history of racism in the United States. They also share personal memories of their mothers and the traditions they upheld, particularly around Thanksgiving. With a mix of humor and heartfelt storytelling, they provide a glimpse into their lives, family history, and the values they cherish. Join them as they share both their reflections on history and the warmth of family traditions.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:25 Thanksgiving Week Plans

01:39 Reflecting on Professional Development

02:36 Church Retreats and Community Engagement

03:33 Trip to the International African American Museum

06:41 Museum Experience and Reflections

23:03 Gullah People and Cultural Insights

30:12 Thanksgiving Memories and Family Traditions

33:27 Thanksgiving Memories and Traditions

33:59 Family Cooking and Mishaps

35:37 Thanksgiving at Your House

38:37 Mother’s Baking and Holiday Treats

41:12 Reflections on Mother’s Personality

41:49 Aunt Pauline and Family Connections

42:41 Mother’s Homemaking and Family Time

43:16 Piddling and Shopping Memories

44:10 Mother’s Retirement and Family Gatherings

44:54 Contrasts Between Our Mothers

45:49 Gourmet Cooking and Holiday Experiments

47:11 Memories of the Leavenworth House

51:51 Creating New Traditions

52:35 Podcast Conclusion and Holiday Wishes

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Ep 36: No Kings and Fall Break Reflections | Wes and Shelly Share

Join Wes and Shelly Fryer in episode 36 of the ‘Wes and Shelly Share’ podcast, recorded on a beautiful fall day at Duke University. They reflect on their busy weekend, which included attending the second ‘No Kings’ protest in Charlotte, facilitating a webinar with renowned author Anne Applebaum, and sharing personal insights on representative democracy and social activism. The episode also dives into recent fall break activities where Shelly and Wes visited Oklahoma City and Kansas respectively. The couple discusses their roles as empty nesters, their continued involvement with community organizations, and their advocacy for democracy and human rights.

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00:35 Weekend Plans and Reflections
03:26 The No Kings Protest
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07:07 Personal Reflections and Community Involvement
15:57 Confronting Whiteness and Cultural Healing
17:48 Conclusion and Call to Action
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Episode 33: Sources of Joy and Summer Goals

Join Wes and Shelly for Episode 33 of ‘Wes and Shelly Share’ as they reflect on sources of joy and discuss their exciting summer goals. From reminiscing about Easter memories to camping adventures, cooking over wood fires, and bird watching, this episode is filled with heartwarming stories and plans for outdoor activities. Listen in as they talk about their love for teaching, their furry family members, and the joy that simple pleasures like reading and designing lessons bring. Plus, get a sneak peek into their upcoming trips to the mountains of North Carolina and Wyoming’s Grand Tetons. Don’t miss this episode full of joy, gratitude, and future adventures!

00:00 Introduction and Apologies

00:37 Painting the Scene: A Beautiful Spring Day

01:57 Sources of Joy: Easter Memories

05:53 Cooking and Sharing Food

10:28 Bird Watching and Nature

15:38 Joy of Reading and Designing Lessons

18:47 Finding Joy in Everyday Moments

19:35 Volunteering and Community Engagement

20:13 The Importance of Relationships

22:07 Cherished Outdoor Activities

23:29 Unplugging for Wellness

26:44 Summer Plans and Adventures

33:46 Writing and Reflecting

36:03 Upcoming Family Events

38:02 Concluding Thoughts and Podcast Details

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Ep 29: Fall Traditions and Memories

In this episode of Wes and Shelly Share, Wes and Shelly take you back in time to reminisce about their favorite fall traditions and memories. From enjoying chicken soup recipes to picturesque maple trees in Manhattan, Kansas, and pumpkin patches in Floydada, Texas, they cover a range of nostalgic family customs. They also reflect on the importance of teaching history, share entertaining memories of Halloween costumes, and discuss the joy of having campfires. Tune in for a heartwarming and reflective podcast episode as they celebrate the beauty and traditions of the fall season.

  • 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene
  • 01:34 Fall Memories and Traditions
  • 02:19 Childhood Memories in Manhattan, Kansas
  • 04:22 Fall Activities and Family Traditions
  • 06:14 Halloween and Pumpkin Patches
  • 13:26 Football and Family Gatherings
  • 18:55 Reflecting on Past Fall Memories
  • 20:23 New Fall Traditions and Experiences
  • 20:47 Fryer’s Funnel Cakes: A Sweet Tradition
  • 22:27 Embracing the Beauty of North Carolina’s Fall
  • 25:23 Planning Future Fall Adventures
  • 25:51 Cherishing Family and Flexibility
  • 34:51 Exploring Historical Brattonsville
  • 39:17 Teaching and Enjoying Space and Legos
  • 40:33 Concluding Thoughts and Podcast Information

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Halloween Costumes – 2008” (CC BY-SA 2.0) by Wesley Fryer

Transcript

Wes: Good evening. It is September the 15th, 2024. It’s a Sunday night. Welcome to episode 29 of Wes and Shelley Share, which I think will be titled Fall Traditions and Memories, even though the temperatures have been in the high 70s today. Fall seems to be in the air. So Shelly set the scene for us.

Where are we and what are you looking at? 

Shelly: We are sitting in our backyard. It’s dark now. The lights that dad has wrapping our fence I don’t know. What are they party lights? I don’t know. Are on We have a chimney of fire. We had a evening picnic. Dad made chicken soup using Carol Curley’s recipe.

I think he posted about it, but Carol Curley was a longtime member of my church in Westminster, Presbyterian in Lubbock, Texas. I remember her as being our college sponsor for our college age group. And it was a big deal when we were all invited over to her house and she would make her famous Carol Curley’s chicken soup.

Anyway, she was a very good cook and anyway, dad has made her soup for years now, man, time has just really caught up to me so it’s cooling off It was warm today, but it’s cooling off. It’s been cloudy we had a few little sprinkles, but Nothing major. It’s just, I don’t know.

Season of fall is coming and I’m looking forward to it. What do I mean by time is catching up to me? I think of course I turned 59 this summer and I’ve been having memories that just feel just like yesterday, only they’re memories from, 25, 30 years ago. Okay, dad said 40 years This is my turn to talk.

It is not your turn to talk But anyway, it seems like time is just going by and my memories are just like they happened yesterday so Just enjoying life and reflecting back on All the fun things that we’ve done during the fall season. So what about you? What kind of fall memories do you have?

Do you want to start us off on our topic?

Wes: I mostly grew up in Manhattan, Kansas. Our family moved to Manhattan in 1981 when I was 11. And I started 6th grade there. And I have a lot of fall memories of trees. The trees in Manhattan are really beautiful. Northeast Kansas is a beautiful place. People who haven’t spent time there, just have a, maybe they think of western Kansas.

They just think flat, wheat fields and barren, nothing. But that’s not what northeast Kansas is like. Northeast Kansas is hilly, it’s wooded and the trees are beautiful. And I especially remember on Points Avenue, not far from my parents house on Leavenworth, there was a beautiful maple tree.

It was a sugar maple. I know that when we had our first house in Lubbock, Texas, I was very excited that we had a sugar maple tree or what I thought and I think it was a sugar maple in the front. I was like, oh my gosh, it’s going to be awesome. In Lubbock, sugar maples, the leaves just turn brown and they fall off.

They don’t change color because you have to have freezing temperatures and you’ve got to have the right temperature You know the right mix of climate and temperatures. I think what happens with fall leaves is that the chlorophyll that makes the leaves green, when it, Is dead and it leaves the leaf.

You see the actual true color of the leaf, which is amazing. So anyway, I remember just lots of beautiful leaves. Of course, we had two huge oak trees in our front yard. Sometime in middle or high school, one of them got struck by lightning. And so a huge branch came down and then eventually they cut both those down.

They were on the city side of the sidewalk. So that was I was fortunate, of course, that neither of them hit the house. But it was also really sad when those trees were gone, but that led to, a ton of leaves. And so part of our fall ritual was always, raking leaves. I remember the first time that Shelly came to visit.

Probably at Thanksgiving. She was just amazed by all of the leaves. And so anyway, camping, I was, I always went camping basically every month of the year with my scout troop from, probably 6th grade on. I was in scouts my whole middle and high school years. And so lots of, love camping trips, enjoying.

Fires, we didn’t cook on stoves at all. That was something that we only did on high adventure To like film on or canoe base or some of those summer programs. So Anyway, just lots of great memories and I think fires. I loved having fires It was my responsibility in our family to split wood we would somehow get you know a cord of wood or whatever and have it in the garage and we always had a sledgehammer and a Wedge, which actually I inherited that.

We still have the old Wedge from and so we’d have the wood would be split, but it would would not be split into, pieces that were super small. So at some point my parents got an electric, a electric, a gas fireplace, but I love fires. I love campfires. We’ve got a campfire right now and the smell of a fire.

And I know Shelly loves this pinyon smell that we have. And so anyway, Those were some memories of Manhattan. How about you in Lubbock, Texas? What was fall like for you growing up?

Shelly: Whoa, that was a good catch. Is it still going? Yep. We’re still going. Oh, let’s see. Fall in Lubbock, Texas. Of course. Dad’s just gone on and on about his beautiful trees. There were not a whole lot of trees in Lubbock, Texas All I remember is we had trees they turned brown the leaves fell down.

But I do have a lot of fall memories most of my memories of course we went trick or treating and all of the things But I remember more fall with the children. You know You Halloween and fall traditions for me, my memory really starts when our kids were little. One of our favorite thing to do was to go out to Floydada, Texas, pumpkin capital of the world.

And they had huge acres of pumpkins, all different kinds, all different sizes. We would go out and take the kids and To the pumpkin patch and there were a couple of times when they actually let us go into the pumpkin patch and pick the pumpkins. Later they didn’t let people do that, but but you could see them growing out there and there were animals and, pumpkin treats and things and that was always really fun.

Great photo op. I think I was scrapbooking then and so I was always taking pictures and scrapbooking and that was really fun. Also, one of the cool things is we had an apple orchard very close to Lubbock and I remember my early childhood PTA group. We would plan little visits out to the apple orchard.

And I can remember going out there with mother again. It was, they had like small apple trees. They were intentionally kept small or planted small. I don’t know how they do that. But you could just reach up and pick trees and you would get a big bucket that had wheels and you would wheel them out and there were all different varieties and then also they had a barn where they were selling baked goods and I think they even had a little restaurant.

It was so much fun and I can remember several times going out there both with Other stay at home moms and early child PTA and some of our little friends from play group. And that was just really wonderful. Great. Again, photo op. I’m sure I have some pictures of that as well. I can remember some of our little fall festivals.

I loved making the kids costumes. I remember one time Alexander was Peter Pan and Sarah was Tinkerbell. I can remember, I think one time, they were dressed up in cheerleader and football things. And one time Alexander had a, we found at a craft show or something, an astronaut’s uniform. And I think I made him a little space shuttle that he wore with his astronaut.

I made it out of a cardboard box anyway. Oh, I made one time a clown costume and I think the kids, I think I made it for Sarah first and Rachel might have worn it. One time we went to Halloween and did trick or treating and things at your parents house. I remember doing that and the kids, I have a picture of the kids on your mom and dad’s front porch.

And I think that was when, oh, Sarah was Little Red Riding Hood and Alexander was a Jedi and I made their capes. Anyway, I, I used to sew. I used to have fun sewing and making their costumes and that was really fun. When we moved to Edmond the church always had some kind of fall Festival, I think it was a fundraiser for the preschool there And we would dress up in costumes and things and then I also remember trick or treating inviting people over Oh pumpkin carving parties.

We did that in lubbock also and invite, you know Our probably our sunday school class over and had a pumpkin Carving evening and everybody carved pumpkins. I remember doing that and that was fun. So I just I love all of the fall memories. Having fires and making chili and What do you remember? Do you remember some different things?

Wes: So my favorite costume That alexander had and it’s weird how like photos are make such an impression on You remember when he had the vacuum cleaner as the? 

Shelly: He was, yeah, the 

Wes: girls were witches, they were good witches. Oh, but the girls made faces. Remember some of those pictures?

We should get some of those and link them up because there’s like making these like grimacing faces. But yeah, he was men in black. So he had on a black sport coat and a black tie, I think. And then he had The Dyson vacuum cleaner was like his, alien machine, alien gun or whatever.

Oh my gosh. Those were like magical times. We’ve talked about this. That your relationship with Kristen Lierd and, Rachel and Maddie. Our family’s relationship to the Lierds. Okay. No one has ever had as many drinks in their refrigerator as the Lierds. And I think Kristen may listen to this show.

We’ll have to give her a shout out. Like sodas. Sodas, yeah. No. I’m talking sodas. Like every kind of beverage. Like it was a wonderland of amazing. Sodas and probably fruit drinks and everything, but. Man, you know what? We should never underestimate the value and power of having people over to our house, and going over to our house.

Here we are, married, we’re in our 50s, what, we’ve been, what is it, 28 years, 29 years, something like that this year? We should know. I should know. 28 years, this is this last year. But honestly, we can almost count on one hand, certainly two hands, probably, the number of people who’ve had us over to their house for dinner.

And there’s some. There was some in Lubbock. There was some. There are. There are some. But it just Wow. That was such a magical time. You were So happy, I think, in your role at the church. There’s always ups and downs to politics in churches and schools and organizations, but good grief. It was, the dynamics of your group were really wonderful.

Those were some golden times in our kids growing up together. I gotta talk about chili cook offs, and it’s just chili, having chili and also stack supper, for me, you got to have the white rice, you got to have the Fritos, and then you layer on the chili, and then you got to have the cheese, and that’s there was one year at our First Presbyterian Church in Edmond.

I guess they didn’t do really great maybe calendar coordination, but it was awesome There were three different chili cook off events and chili, chili feeds and that’s where I’m trying to remember his name Dan tub have the green chili hatch green chili from New Mexico.

That’s where I’m a, my mother had prepared Cincinnati chili, but somebody else did Cincinnati chili, which we’ve done. We should do that again. We’re like lower carb eaters and cookers now. So some of this is not as like standard, but yeah, Eunice did a Kenyan chili with really exotic African flavors.

And everyone could vote and that was really fun. That was later when it was just later at at First Prez, but ah, so many good memories. And then there was something else that was related. Oh, football! Goodness gracious. So many fall memories of football games. We would basically, like a religious pilgrimage, go to Manhattan for Labor Day to all be together with Trudy and Max’s family, my sister and family, and they, lived in Manhattan at one point, moved to Kansas City and to Liberty, but that was just the real kind of rallying time.

And oh gosh, there were some hot games, good grief, I remember, being miserable. At some point, my mom decided She didn’t want to tailgate anymore. And so she would go. In fact, we would just do the tailgate of the house, which wasn’t a tailgate, but we did all kinds of things. And they were always into that.

Early on, mom and dad were partnered up with some friends and they shared a parking spot in the parking lot of the stadium and one of them had a motor home and but they would all have a theme and so everyone would have different dishes and you know that is actually my favorite part of sports and college athletics specifically is just like tailgating and coming together as a family and the traditions with that my mother was very much into cooking and themes and they had gourmet groups and on all this kind of stuff, but I just, I love that.

And Rachel got, celebrated her birthday so many different years at K State football games. I remember so well this one year that they let us on the field afterwards for fireworks. In fact, I think Maybe that was the one we sat like in the northeast corner of the stadium. And so we’d gotten to talk to Willie the wildcat who’s the, mascot of K State.

He’d been right there with us and getting pictures with him. But then we went on the field and we were laying out there and they shut off all the lights and then the fireworks and I think Rachel might have thought it was all for her, for her birthday. I was just magical, and so much family, family coming together.

Cause that was like our family reunion each year was the Labor Day football game, and I do miss that. For a number of years I got to split a season ticket with my cousin Devin Henley, who was living in Wichita. And so we would alternate, going with Dad. Mom had decided that she was done with football, and so Dad, still wanted to go.

But that was so cool that Devin and I could do that. Do you have any, good football Manhattan memories that really stand out to you? 

Shelly: Yes, all of those things I would absolutely echo. But I think it was also fun just to have Aggieville. Once we put the kids to bed and Trudy and Max and we’d all go out down to Aggieville.

Go to all the little Rusty’s last chance or some of the little bars down there. It was our way to sneak off and have some adult time and that was really fun. Yeah. Redina and have a coffee and a pastry and blue stem. There’s both. There’s both. I used to always love just going in all the little shops and picking up some fall things and yeah, a lot of great.

Manhattan’s just a great football town and, college town. And it’s changing some, with parking garages and hotels and things, it’s getting fancy a little bit, but anyway now Kim has a daughter there, Braylon’s there. And so that, the generations are still, yeah, connecting and that’s fun.

Yeah, I remember Oh, I even, that goes all the way back to Westminster. The beer rocks. I love beer rocks. I want to have beer rocks. Okay. I don’t know exactly what a beer rock is. It’s like a meat sandwich. I believe it’s German. I think some, oh quit, stop that. He’s so weird. I think some people called them Renzes.

It’s another version of it. Whatever, I am not from Nebraska and have nothing to do with Nebraska. But, my mother called them burocks. And it was hamburger and cabbage and a roll. Sarah, I’m sure she’s going to listen and she does not have fond memories of those. I think she was sick one time.

Yes. Oh, yes, that’s why we haven’t had them in forever. But, I want to have those. And It was always a fall thing. My mother would make those and it was a big deal. And so she would make them, not really, not in the grand scheme of things, it’s hot roll mix and you do the hamburger and cabbage and you cook that and then you let it rise.

Yeah, it’s one of those things where it’s really not that difficult, but you, it, it’s such a pivotal thing that. I don’t know. To me, that reminds me of the fall. And so I would like to do that. And maybe even have some friends over. Like you said, it’s really fun to start some traditions.

And I miss, the carving of the pumpkins. We don’t really have trick or treaters here. Our neighborhood’s fairly older and But oh man, trick or treating in Oklahoma, yeah. Oklahoma City where we moved where the kids grew up. That was some big time trick or treating. It was, they would block off the streets.

People would come from all over. The, it was wall to wall people. People decorated their yards. And that was always so much fun. I can remember having, that’s when mother and dad were living there. For more information, visit www. FEMA. gov At the statesman and they would come over and we just sit mother down and sometimes it was cold one time We had a fire pit and people could warm up by the fire pit.

We had a great porch where Anyway, that was that was always really fun. I enjoyed that 

Wes: well and one of the favorite those are all amazing and It was crazy to me how much money people would spend on that. It was as if, it was like, for some people I totally believe Halloween is a bigger deal than Christmas.

The number of blow up things in people’s yards. It was so sad though. We had somebody who was like, Turning the back on Kevin Durant, putting the Kevin Dur Kevin, the Kevin Durant, gravestone in their yard and stuff. But I totally remember with fondness when the French students, the French Exchange students were there at our house.

And we had a phone hooked up to a Bluetooth speaker, and we let one of the French students play, and I think maybe there was some explicit lyrics in French or something, I don’t know. Rachel can validate that. But, it was so fun, the kids enjoyed it so much, I think that was, again, a chilly dinner or maybe like stack supper chili, but do we have our front area done?

We had it redone. I don’t think we did because it was pre COVID. So that was pre COVID, but just, fun to have the kids over. That was one thing that I’m so thankful for is that we were able to have our home open at different times. For, the kids to have friends over and We’ll, we’re not talking of New Year’s and stuff, but that became a tradition with Alexander and his friend group, and Anyway, yeah, really good fall memories.

Okay, let’s have halftime, and then we’re gonna come back and talk about some new traditions and experiences that we’ve had, and then what we hope our future fall traditions and experiences could look like, because Shelly’s always looking at pictures of mountain cabins and dreaming of the future.

So we’ll come back here after halftime. 

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Shelly: Okay, I hope you enjoyed that funnel cake and whatever I don’t even know what our halftime message is anymore all right, so Fall memories that we’re building now. So of course we’ve already talked about trees, but I just I love being out in the woods here in north carolina And of course, I enjoy them all summer and summer hiking the we really The trees haven’t started turning yet.

You have some early just twinges of red coming out but oh, I just love the season of fall when The leaves are changing and I just cannot get enough of it. One of the first things we did when we Moved here is take a little fall getaway trip to the mountains and we stayed at deep gap And and then went by blowing rock which is a beautiful overlook.

Although that was probably when it was still, yeah, so it was still green then. But Wes and I, in a few weeks, we’ll try to make a weekend getaway trip to the Blue Ridge mountains before they close the Blue Ridge highway. And And see oh so montreat was we did a fall retreat with one of the churches we were looking at I think that’s when we saw all of the beautiful color in the trees.

I mean it was spectacular Just spectacular but so making a trip to the mountains in the fall is definitely one of our new fall traditions also wes and I are now it’s been about a year. We’ve almost done it a year that we’ve done our fennel cake thing. Next weekend we’re going to go to Waxhaw and to the Museum of the Waxhaws and do our fennel cake thing.

That’s becoming a little thing that we do and that’s, fall festivals as we continue to collect fall festivals. We didn’t go to the Greek festival this year. Mainly because all I really want to do when I go there is eat baklava and all of the goodies and I was trying to be good.

But I think we did we talk about going to the cider orchard here? Oh, I found it. I think it’s going to be our wonder link, but I found a little apple orchard here. It was It’s a brand new apple orchard, so it, yeah, they made cider, and they had cider donuts, and that was really good, and you could go out and pick your own apples, yeah, oh, apple cider donuts, yeah and that was fun, it was a, Yeah, a fun little outing yeah, the dogs enjoyed it.

We like to take little adventures where the dogs can go with us because they enjoy that so last year we did do a fall chilly driveway happy hour type thing So with some neighbors and so we can try to maybe host that this year and that would be fun Oh yeah, when Sarah was living with us, we took a train trip through, the, next to the river, and yeah, in western North Carolina, and that was fun.

We’re still looking for fun fall things to do around here, to hikes, and maybe a fall camping trip. . Anyway, we’ve got some, oh, we will be going to Virginia soon and that’ll be pretty, I don’t know, it might be fall by the time we get there that’ll be gorgeous. I love Virginia.

Virginia’s really pretty too. So what about you? What fall memories are you wanting to make? 

Wes: Yeah, people ask us why we moved to North Carolina and, to give a quick answer, we’ll just say the trees and that is is true. Definitely the mountains. Everything that, that Shelly said.

I think that we’ve definitely discerned that here in the empty mist, as we find ourselves, which is what this podcast is a lot about, we are in the in between time with no grandchildren in the picture. And so we’re very independent at this point, because we do have our dogs and, we gotta take them with us or have, somebody take care of them.

But, it’s really freeing to not have the schedule of the kids. I’ve got some friends at school who are older, but they’ve got time. younger kids and, the schedules of families today can absolutely be crazy. Our schedules were crazy with, especially a lot of theater and then, and some with sports with Rachel.

We were not a huge sports family in terms of all the kids playing varsity sport and a club sport and all of that. And I’m thankful that we had that as a choice. Of course, it. Depends on kids and what kids want to do or not to do, but I think there’s a real tendency today to over program children and to really just, find yourself every weekend and every, just to not basically have much downtime.

And so anyway, it’s really a wonderful thing to find ourselves in a place of life where. We are able to be flexible and I’m not teaching Sunday school full time. I did love to, to teach adult Sunday school, I think for maybe three years at first president Edmond before, the, A few years before we moved and that Sunday school class was wonderful.

I just, and I wouldn’t change that at all for a minute, I actually, we both taught Sunday school today. I substituted in for our adult ACE class and Shelly taught the kids during the worship service. And it’s wonderful to be able to help and contribute our community. our gifts and ideas, but it’s also great to be flexible.

So a few weeks ago, we planned the whole fall schedule and I felt a bit like my mother who was very calendar organized and would, do that sort of thing and coordinate. But it’s good because, we’ve got some priorities. Shelly said, we want to get to the mountains. We want to go up to Virginia to stay with our friends, the Conaways and get to be on the farm.

And that drive to Virginia to me is one of the highlights. One of the things that’s happened in the last year or so is for several reasons, we have just decided not to drive on the interstate very much. And so unless we, You know really need to get there quick. We take a side road and we take the road less traveled And an example of this and I guess we can talk about it we’re gonna do our wanderlink and our wonderlink.

So maybe this will segue into it we ended up going on the highway, which we have this interstate 485 That’s a big loop that goes around charlotte and then we got on Was it 77, it goes south to Columbia. Anyway, we took the interstate going to Brattonsville yesterday. And, but then when we came back, we took, it was probably at least 20 minutes, 20 or 30 minutes longer.

But just an awesome, meandering path, through the back roads. You want to talk a little bit about that? The wonderlink of Brattonsville? Or you want me to introduce that a little bit? I don’t know. Yeah. Is there? You talk 

Shelly: about. I’m good. 

Wes: You’re good with that? 

Shelly: Yeah. 

Wes: Okay. Any other one fall things that you can think about?

What does your aspirational fall look like, in the future? Like, where would you like to be in five years? And what kinds of memories you want to make with your grandchildren someday? 

Shelly: I think West. In the beginning, I always dream i’m looking at I have a facebook page it’s called this old house and there’s always properties and old houses and I would love to have a mountain cabin someday and You know be able to live.

I don’t know in the mountains So we’re not so much football people anymore. And that’s fine. But of course I would love to see my grandchildren dressed up in their Halloween costumes and taking them trick or treating and experiencing pumpkin patches and apple picking and it’d be nice to have, someplace where we could have our family and our grandchildren come and visit to, that would build strong memories.

I love decorating. I haven’t gotten my fall things out yet, but it’s about that time and I enjoy. As Wes said, nesting, he calls it and I enjoy doing that and I’ll get out my Halloween things and I’ll get out my fall things and I like that. Yeah, who knows, time is marching on quickly and I want to savor every little minute of it.

But it would be nice to be close enough to grandchildren that we could spend some holidays and have some memories like that. And I think that would be wonderful. Okay, so shall we talk about some of our wanderlings? We talked a little bit about our Windy Hill cider orchard that we found. Oh yeah A PEO sister friend of mine from Oklahoma city had stayed at a place in Manitou Springs and that sounded fun and different.

And so when we were looking for a place to stay when we went to the springs for, We stayed there. Buffalo Lodge. I guess if you follow us on Facebook, you’ll have seen a post or two about that, but it was such a cool place. It was an old motel that they had picked up. Renovated and it was like bicycle And so a lot of people that ride bicycles, stay there and there’s a lot of great biking around in the airy red rocks and everything garden of the gods but it was fun.

It had a big fireplace where and for breakfast and you could sit in there and they had concerts in the evenings and a really nice swimming pool. I think it was new. So a glamping site, some glamping tits tents that they had just put in. And so I highly recommend it. It was a lot of fun and I’m sure we will stay there again.

And, Buffalo Lodge, it just reminded me, Buffalo Bicycle Lodge Resort. Anyway, it was fun, I highly recommend it, and we had a great time. And I hope that Rachel maybe will go there and they do things with kids. And, they’re open 365 days a year, and they decorate for holidays and have fun things going on year round.

So anyway, that was really fun. And I enjoyed that. 

Wes: Manatee Springs is one of my favorite parts of Colorado Springs. I just love old Colorado city and that area. And so it was neat to stay down there to get to introduce Rachel to some of that area, we didn’t actually get to spend a lot of time in old Colorado city, but we did go to the The art festival that they had in the park down there and we got to go, a little bit into the garden of the gods.

I really liked that Mexican restaurant that we went back to. Rachel was not able to be with us. That was acceptance day weekend the first time. She was locked up at the Academy. But we had, the whole family there last year because it coincided with several things. It was Rachel’s acceptance day parade.

It was my dad’s, I think maybe 60th Academy reunion. And then it was also dad’s scheduled for us to have the memorial service and the internment of mom’s ashes at the cemetery at the Air Force Academy. And all of those things and having our family together, but it was fun to be able to go back We went back for lunch and Anyway, that was great.

That was great. So we had a very wonderful experience on Parents Weekend. And, today I was looking at find my iPhone and just, how many miles away Sarah is in Oklahoma City and my dad in Manhattan, Kansas and Sarah and I can’t see Alex and Grace because they’re not on our iCloud account anymore.

They’re a long way away. as well. And so yeah, that’s part of what I want to do is be in a flexible situation where we can travel, we can see our kids, we can spend time with them and their families. And Shelly said, hopefully we’ll have a place where the kids will want to gather and I’d love to make good memories together.

I’m so thankful that, even though I moved away from Manhattan, Kansas at the young age of 17 to go off to the Air Force Academy. Manhattan and our home at 1515 Leavenworth was really a home base and it was such a, it was wonderful the years that we lived in Lubbock and then in Oklahoma we were half as close.

It’s a 12 hour drive from Lubbock to Manhattan, but it’s a 6 hour drive from, or maybe a little bit even shorter, depends on who’s driving and the route you take. But it’s, That’s just great. And so thankful for those good memories. Lastly, let’s do our wonder link. Maybe you can talk a little bit about what you’re wondering with space.

You can talk about your, if you, do you want to talk about your space camp with your kids? Your Lego stuff? I’ll talk about Brattonsville. We’ve mentioned this before. This is a super, super unique place. It is a former plantation that is in York County, which is only about 45 to 60 minutes away from where we are here in Charlotte.

We’re in South Central North Carolina in what’s called the Piedmont. And were lots and lots of plantations and lots of slaves in this area in the Antebellum South. And Brattonsville is very unique because the physical buildings of the plantation to include slave houses, there were 10 homes of the formerly enslaved that served in the home around this central house.

This has just been remodeled and reopened. This was the first time we were able to go into that main house, but we went to an event called by the sweat of our brows and it is run by the descendants of the Brattons and the Bratton family was very wealthy and they had, they owned hundreds of slaves and the descendants of the Brattons are black and they’re white and they’re Of mixed race and it’s starting to rain a little more honey I think we’re gonna have to go in because this is a serious rain Let’s go in we were trying earlier to wait and not go inside And I can hear rain coming and so we’re gonna Have to move in Because this is serious Got it.

Got it. Okay. Come on dogs All right, here we go. This is exciting. Yeah, boom, it’s coming down. We need the rain. We were supposed to incidentally get some rain from this tropical storm and hurricane and that did not materialize, but boy do we ever need it. Okay this event, Run by the Descendants of the Brattans, was all about really racial reconciliation confronting the past, being honest about our history, the importance of, bringing those conversations into school.

And, not whitewashing the past, but talking about what was done. We met a man who is the great, I think, grandson of the Bratton who founded the Ku Klux Klan, the KKK in South Carolina. It came from Tennessee to York County. York County was a county considered to be in insurrection during the post Civil War reconstruction years until some just, this history of reconstruction is just terrible.

What, the way in which basically the South was just given back to the, the same white plantation owners and elites that had rebelled in the Civil War. But anyway, it is a, it’s a place that not only has buildings and physical structures, but it has the records of the people who live there, including the slaves and the people who were enslaved, we should say.

And so with DNA evidence and DNA analysis this very eclectic group of people know that they’re related and they’re relatives. I just took away from it such encouragement to, confront the past, study the past, not whitewash the past, and find ways that we can have respectful conversations about.

Our history and the ways in which we want to do better as a society and a culture and it’s so timely because, the KKK was a terrorist organization and it terrorized generations of African Americans and whites and just, it was living in terror. And so unfortunately we have.

Some we have some difficult things happening in our country today with respect to the elections. I don’t think it’s anything at that scale like we had, during and following the Civil War, but it’s timely and I’m thankful for the chance that we have to be able to be in a place, in a space where we can.

Intersect with people having these kinds of conversations and learning about these kinds of things. You want to comment at all on your experiences there or we can talk about the bass club or something else. 

Shelly: Yeah, we need to start winding this up. But one thing that I have really enjoyed this semester is starting my little space club.

So we have an extended day program at our school. And I’m teaching an extended day class called Legos in Space. And so I have six days. 17 first graders and four second graders and last week we learned about rockets and this week we’re going to learn about spacecraft and I am really excited.

Enjoying, that was an airplane, a very loud airplane going over. Doing that, I mean it’s really fun. I think this is the first year in a long time that I feel settled. After moving and just not, this is the first in two school years now. Where I’ve known where I was going to teach. I’ve known what I was going to teach.

I didn’t have to start over. I’m excited about knowing students and knowing students names and enjoy the people that I’m working with and so this has been a really positive start of the school year for me. I’m getting to do some things that I love and I’m just, I’ve had a really good start to the school year and I’m really enjoying working with kids especially when it comes to space and Legos, it’s awesome.

Wes: All right. Awesome. If you’ve stayed with us, we appreciate it. This is Wes and Shelly Share. We are now on a schedule where we’re doing one of these a month. Maybe we’ll do some more often, but we have good encouragement from our children from time to do episodes. And so it’s good to reflect on where we are.

And these, just like going back, we’re looking at all kinds of old pictures all the time because we have, Slideshows that, work with Apple TV and with the Chromecast and all this. And it’s great to see these pictures and memories. And I know that, already I’ve gone back and listened to some of these.

It’s good. It’s good to reflect. So we would love to hear from you. If you are listening you can let us know by reaching out. We have a Facebook page for Wes and Shelley Share, which may be the way that you have found this, but you can subscribe in whatever, platform you use to listen to podcasts.

We still have the website ShellyFryer.com/podcast, where you can find links to our podcast episodes and be able to get that wherever you listen to your podcasts. And you can also reach out to us for me, you can just go to westfryer. com slash after, and I have a ton of links. Facebook is probably the easiest way, but there’s some other ways as well.

And Shelly’s on Facebook and you can reach out to her there. So we got to say our theme, which we say so rarely now it’s going to be hard. So go outside be curious and keep exploring. 

Shelly: Yeah, there you go. That sounds good. 

Wes: That’s it. All right. 

Shelly: All right. Have a great fall season and find fun things to do.

Have adventures.

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Room108 Podcast 21: Things We Are Grateful For

Our character word for this week has been Gratitude. We have spent time being thankful for the good things in our lives. In this podcast students talked about thinks they are grateful for. We also created a paper slide video, using the song “Grateful” by emptyhandsmusic. This is the twenty-first episode of our classroom podcast, created using the free Opinion app on my iPhone.  I teach third and fourth grade students at Positive Tomorrows in Oklahoma City.

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Shownotes:

  1. This podcast episode on Opinion
  2. Mrs. Fryer’s Class Is Grateful For It All (a “paper slide” quick edit video)
  3. Song “Grateful” by emptyhandsmusic
  4. Our radio show homepage on Opinion
  5. Our Classroom Website (on Google Sites)
  6. Our Classroom YouTube Channel
  7. Follow me on Twitter:  @sfryer
Star Wars Visit by shellyfryer, on Flickr
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Room108 Podcast 16: How did you show honesty or integrity today?

Our character words for this week are honesty and integrity. In this episode of our classroom radio show, students talk about how they have recently shown honesty and integrity . This is the sixteenth episode of our classroom podcast, created using the free Opinion app on my iPhone.  I teach third and fourth grade students at Positive Tomorrows in Oklahoma City.

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Shownotes:

  1. This podcast episode on Opinion
  2. Our radio show homepage on Opinion
  3. Our Classroom Website (on Google Sites)
  4. Our Classroom YouTube Channel
  5. Follow me on Twitter:  @sfryer
First Week by shellyfryer, on Flickr
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